Forrest Fetherolf
I have been asked by others to comment on a recent article written by a blogger insinuating that I am a racist or bigot.
Unfortunately, when using words like "bigot" or "racist" in a community that has, to my knowledge, never experienced any racial tension, claiming others should be referred to in that way, crosses a line of decency.
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Here is my story……….
After graduating from a small school in central Illinois, I joined the United States Marine Corps.
During Marine boot camp at MCRD San Diego, I shared a space with a Pvt. Childs, an African American man.
We shared all the same training together…there was no discrimination; there was no mention of color. Both of us had one objective: to become proud US Marines.
After boot camp, I was assigned to the 5th Marine Division. My platoon leader was Staff Sergeant Dungee, another African American man.
For two years, I worked very closely with him as platoon radio operator. I highly respected him as a leader and as a person. For my work efforts, I received his respect and he rewarded me with two meritorious promotions.
After my 4-year tour of duty with the Marines, I was accepted by the Los Angeles Police Department.
Six months later the 1965 Watts riot erupted in South Central Los Angeles. I was transferred from the quiet West Valley Division in the San Fernando Valley to a war zone in South Central Los Angeles.
After weeks of the rioting, I continued to work in the Watts area.
My partners were African American men; we patrolled the Watts area for more than 2 months. We respected each other and depended on each other for backup and support.
Later, I became a General Contractor after recovering from a near fatal disabling accident while on duty with the LA Police Dept, I spent over 18 months in body casts, wheelchairs, crutches and 6 corrective surgeries recovering.
For more than 12 years, Odell Thompson, his uncle, his nephew, and I worked together building homes in the Los Angeles area. All three of these fine men were of African American heritage.
Odell taught my workers and me the proper way to frame a house, and I owe much of my later successful career to him for the time and patience he spent with me and our fellow workers.
I moved to SCA December 31, 2007. I have never regretted the move.
Two lovely ladies live close to me.
Joleen lives across the street, and Samaria lives one block over.
Both are African American ladies.
We have socialized over the last 12 years, attended block parties and I have helped both fixing things in their home.
December 2008, during the 8” snowstorm, Joleen called me around 9pm; she was stuck in the snow one-half mile from her home. I towed her home with my 4-wheel drive vehicle and escorted her up the driveway so she would not slip and fall.
I have referred local handyman Ben Foster, another fine reputable African American gentleman, to several SCA Residents for home repairs and maintenance.
Last week Ben asked me if I would help Janice, another African American lady who is wheelchair bound. I repaired a broken sprinkler line for her.
I have rented 3 of my SCA homes to African Americans.
If Mr. Berman, Mr. Coleman, and others think I am a racist and bigot…my history speaks for itself.
I am not, never have been, and do not intend to be.
Perhaps both of them and others should be spending more time with those of all races, joining them together in kindness, generosity, and acceptance, rather than their current activities which seem to accomplish little more than creating divisions in our community with their senseless acts and accusations.
Forest, thank you for telling your story.
Thank you for also helping me when I had an issue in my house.
It is my belief, when a person starts calling another a racist, it says more about that person than the one accused.
Unlike the two people making the accusation, you have gone out of your way to help many in our community.
I have lived here for over seven years, and until recently this community was always color blind.
For the first time in our lives, my wife and I now feel the need to investigate the purchase of weapons for self defense.
Please continue your selfless acts that make our community a better place.
Do not let people with hate in their heart change your kindness.